Regaining Confidence



There was a time when I wondered why there are so many motivational workshops and articles. Why can’t people be confident themselves? Why do we need someone else’s help in realising our personality and capabilities? Shouldn’t we know ourselves better than anyone else?

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Over time, I realised that the inborn sense of assurance is not prevalent amongst everyone. In fact, it is rare to always find that comprehensive self-confidence amongst adults given the bucket full of disasters people tend to generally experience in life.

Some people may have high intrapersonal skills and may be in control of every detail related to their personal minds. It could come naturally to them. Certain events, though, may adversely change the way they look at life and themselves. And in those cases, the natural self-confidence fades away.

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Everyone definitely needs a boost of confidence, assurance and hope once in a while. Now I know. Receiving words of support from others help us in recovering.

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But to complete the recovery, we need more than encouragement. We need action. And we need to take that action ourselves.

So although it is great to have help from others to realise our capabilities, we are the ones who need to spring forward to comprehend and utilise those capabilities.

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And once we do that, we truly regain confidence in our abilities, principles and life path.




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